"Take what do you need, not the thing you want."

 Applied to same situation for human being. You do love him, but you want someone else. Padahal yang dok ada tu takde kurang pon. Perfect for you.

 Solution?
 Take a deep breath. Think.

Macam barang pon. Tetap la napsu jin nak itu nak ini padahal tak perlu pon. Nak je.
Think. Decide. Choose.

Your choice doesn't matter.
What lies in your heart does.